Living is better than dying until it’s not. But even if letting a person die is the right thing to do, it’s not what family members are expecting. We are arrogant and think that something like this never happen to us. We don’t likethe feeling and death feels like a loss even when we know it’s not. We know it’s time. We know it’s right. We know we did everything we could. It is hard to shake that feeling that you could’ve done more.”